Does Pink Really Stink?
Here's a part of an article I was reading today that started me thinking...
"Not long afterward, she felt compelled to do something about it. In 2008, she and Abi, both 38, started an advocacy group called Pinkstinks, which they hope will spark a shift in a popular culture that they say puts girls "into a pretty little box" from birth, offering them toys that emphasize the importance of looking good and being feminine, while the boys are allowed to go exploring and get dirty. The sisters have launched campaigns to pressure retailers to move away from such stereotypes, like their recent effort to help persuade the British supermarket chain Sainsbury's to repackage a doctor costume that was labeled for boys and a nurse's outfit labeled for girls."
The article about two British sisters calling for a ban on "too-girly" toys for girls that was featured in Time, made me cringe. When my daughter was born 5 years ago, I was determined to stay away from girly toys for her. I tried to be gender-neutral, buying her wooden trains, cars, animals and more. But then her first birthday rolled around, and I took her to the store to figure out what she might like. As we rolled past the dolls, I'll never forget her reaction. Her little body catapulted, almost all the way out of the cart in order to get at a baby doll. The first time she held her baby, she cooed and cuddled it, and she couldn't wait to feed her a bottle. I gave in. I let her have her baby doll and it has been a slippery slope since then. I was the mother who said she would never let her daughter have a Barbie, and now she has a dozen. I was the mother who tried to dress her daughter in pants, and in blue, and now she wants nothing but dresses and purple and pink.
When my daughter was two, we had a son, and by the time he was six months old, and could crawl, he was dragging his little body over to anything with wheels. He was facinated with cars, and planes, and trains even though he was surrounded by dolls and "girls' toys".
What I am getting at here, is that while I agree with these sisters, that some toys just don't scream out for "girl-ization" (a pink globe? what?), I think it is part of nature, and not exactly nurture. I didn't push girl toys on my daughter or boys' toys on my son, but they garavitated towards them. If I tried to tell my daughter that "pink stinks" she would be motified since she loves anything that is pink (or purple for that matter). Are we just over thinking it?
What do you think? Are girls' toys too girly? Are we forcing pink down thier pretty little throats? Or is it natural for my little girl to love Barbie because she "so so so so so beautiful mommy!" (that's what she said when I asked her why she wanted a Barbie of all things). Are we harming them with too much pink?
Leave us a comment and let us know what you think about pink!
--Laura M.























































